Your D.A.R.

I've realized those to whom we've learned to love are those which seem to get the short end of the stick, continuously. 

So, what is the best way to deal with our problems? I recall reading the book, Men are from Mars & Women from Venus, where it explains differences in actions by our gender, but not necessarily a disagreement about the moral of the argument. With this, I've slowly been trying to learn to communicate clearly & leaving my frustrations to bullet points. But the truth of the matter is, until we can effectively communicate with all types of people no matter the gender, age or ethnicity we have something to work on within ourselves. 

The core of what it is that makes us upset, or frustrated, is ourself. When our form of communication isn't reciprocated the same after a valiant effort, then time for self-reflection of what we need to do to fix the problem in the future by what we can change, us only. 

But the most important take-away, is only fight the battles worth the time. Noticablely, that itself is a cure; not the band-aid. 

Let's move into the new year not blaming others, but understanding.