You Can Only Take So Much...

In the course of our lives we begin to create thresholds in which actions we are willing and unwilling to accept. It is not because we are bad people that we refuse to tolerate immature actions, and or exchange of words, it is that we become more aware who we are as individuals along the course. We begin to realize those whom are not dignified of our own morals and characteristics we part from, and those who we never would have presumed as the same as our own end up being our greatest supporter. 

Many of us don't know who we are, so we allow the ones around us mend our unique characteristics to their traits. We often mimic those whom we surround ourselves with. We must step away from our own being often and reevaluate ourselves and ask ourselves, "are the actions that I am portraying now who I want to be ten years from now..." If the answer is no, then it is time to reconfigure who we are and what actions that we are doing not only to others but ourselves that needs the altering. If the answer is yes, establish new goals... if your current standing is the same for ten years from now you need a challenge. It is often times that we sell ourselves short of aspiring greater and bigger things. We stand in our own shadows dwelling on what could have happened instead of making changes in order to make something new happen...

There will forever be the person that will try to bring you down. It is those that do not yet know who they are that feed off of people who are doing better than they are. They are the "Debby Downers." Often times it is the person that we care for and respect their opinions to the most that we allow let them bring us down continually. We need to comprehend that the ones that love us just as equally back will be the ones that are our greatest supporters, and that we need to continue positive acts to maintain who we are, and separate from those who feed off our energy for negative reasons. The truth is, we all want to be at the same place in life. We are crave off wanting to be happy... but in the process our identity gets hazy as others' attain goals faster, and our own personal achievements get questioned. We need to set part and apprehend that our goals and life road will be different from the people around us, accept it, and we live in a world attainable make your dream a goal.